A few weeks ago, I attended the National Academy of Distinguished Neutrals (NADN) seminar in Atlanta. The speakers were tremendous. The lineup featured Kenneth Feinberg, the notorious mediator/author who administered the “9/11 Victims Compensation Fund“ and recently released the book Who Gets What. Michael Keaton plays Feinberg in the film Worth - I recommend watching!
My favorite segment, however, may have been on Saturday morning, when we spent several hours discussing “the re-learning of silence.“ There were, of course, many other skills and techniques discussed over three days, but I am compelled to focus on a skill which I continue to find particularly challenging and counter-intuitive: the skill of saying nothing. Julia Okada of Triad Consulting expertly led the discussion.